Turns out that he's actually right when he told me "they need you more than you need them", now all i have to do is decide whatever i think is right and good for me. I'm just making myself feel worse for complaining at him instead of taking actions to resolve the issue. What happened to my "do whatever makes you happy" principle? I really need to do something about this myself. Anytime soon he'll also start getting sick and tired of my rants. This is so not me. The me i know has a shitload of patience. Come the fuck on, jiashi! Pull your freaking shit together!