7/12/12

self-realization # 12

finally, i get it now.

a healthy relationship is all about communication :D

actually, i already knew it since before. for me, communication is really the main foundation of any kind of relationship. pero ngayon ko lang talaga sya naprove at narealize ng bonggang bongga.

what do i exactly mean by communication?

it's about OPENNESS. yung ready kayo sa kahit anong usapan, positive man o negative. basta lahat ng misunderstandings hindi pinapangunahan ng emosyon. instead, dinadaan sa magandang usapan. pero walang kwenta ang usap kung hindi marunong umintindi. so you also need to be UNDERSTANDING. dapat marunong ka talaga umunawa sa other party. yung bago ka magalit, alamin mo muna kung bakit nya ginawa yung bagay na yun because you have all the rights to know the reason. don't waste it.

kaya kung kaya nyong gawin yung dalawang bagay na yun (being open and understanding) para sa relationship nyo, i'm sure magiging super harmonious yung pagsasama nyo :3 hihihi

yes, communication before anything else. kasi kapag marunong kayo magcommunicate sa isa't isa, lalo mo pang makikilala ng husto yung partner mo. and everything will automatically follow. dun na papasok yung love, care, trust, etc. when you completely know your partner already, it would be no longer hard for you to trust him/her with all your heart.

if you try to understand, you'll also be understood in return.
give and take, that's how it goes.